Forgiveness is a key to your freedom. Forgive those who hurt you and do not allow your destiny in God be affected by this. You belong to a holy nation, God can do anything in your life that is impossible . Yes I know is hard , and Yes I do not know the measure of hurt and pain that have been brought into your life. Look at the Cross , What Jesus Done for you? Wasn’t He hurt because of our iniquity ? Weren’t they insult Him?

unforgiveness make a mountain of hurt and bad stuff.  Remove this by pushing the Spirit of God to work through you and eliminate it slowly.

Perry Noble in his Unleashed book wrote : ” Forgiveness is not a onetime choice. Rather, its a daily decision we need to make. ”

The struggle of forgive is real. But why are you relaying on your own understanding ? When the God of universe came and live like us in the world and died for humanity . Isnt this forgiveness. May you say Dariush I know , But He is God .


Oh my dear friend , He was like us , 100% Human , He felt like us, He was under pressure so much ( As He said to His Father take this pain from me or give me strength to pass it).

I give you some tips to help you for forgiveness:

1- Forgive your self.

The very first step you need to take is to forgive your self , this is not going happen till the Spirit of God move you inside and cleanse you . This is who you are. This is who Gad had in mine to make you. You are who you are in Him. You came for a reason to love and be in love. God has not called you to unfruitfulness rather He chooses you to be what you would be. You are forgiven . This is not your own task. This Body of yours is for His. This Heart of hurt and pain is for God. Your attitude toward yourself must be changed . Paul says ” be new in your mind “. Submit yourselves . then to God.


2- Forgive others

I know , nearly for some of us is impossible. But do you know with God nothing is impossible?  If you want to be release and reach to freedom. Take step and do forgive others. Why are you hurting yourself? There is no reason for it. You are made for today. You are not belong to yesterday.  You are belong for tomorrow. Every morning is  a new day a new glory. You are not a product of past. You need to make decision today.

You never know how beautiful is forgive others when you really do it.

You say, How Dariush , How can I do that. I can not do that ever, you do not know what have been that. Yes you are right I do not know . But I do know we have a God is greater and bigger than anything . Do you believe it? receive it in your heart. Change your glasses , Change your prospective , Change it by the power of love . Yes you can do it. Let it go . Do you want to receive forgiveness , do forgive them.

For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. ” (Matthew 6 : 14-15)
I did not brought up this verse because you have to do it. Most of us read this verse and pass it on. I brought this verse up because I love you to be free from pain of forgiveness.
Do not let the certain time of  your life dictate your bright future.

3- Moving on

Let it go and move on to your beautiful future , God has bigger plan in your life. Don’t you know God was waiting for you to move on?  This small thing of life which we made for ourselves like a mountain is an obstacle for God’s purpose in our life. You are going to next level . A level of flourish.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!    ” 2 Corinthians 5 : 17

Are you okay with it? You are completely a new person . You are labelled with ‘strong’ . No, no one can steal you. This is yours. This is a gift. A gift from above. Move into new glorious future the God provided for you.


written by Dariush Youkhaneh

would you allow others to know this blog ? If you are really be blessed why not recommending ? Someone out there need this .


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